Come on a style journey with me

 

Now that I am getting older I am realising that things are changing in so many aspects of my life however, one big change is coming in terms of my style and I need to start listening to my head when it comes to my style now as it is telling me it is time to move on from what I currently wear and try something different. At the moment I am not enjoying my wardrobe 99% of the time which in turn is making getting ready a real struggle. I think that not liking my wardrobe is a real sign of me growing up and changing the direction of my life to be honest as the graphic t-shirts just aren't doing it for me anymore. 

Getting ready on a morning is just one big struggle as I can never find anything to wear as I don't want to be going to work in graphic t-shirts daily, I want to look a lot smarter. Not having things to wear is also resulting in me going out with 0 confidence as the clothing isn't cutting it and I feel I am going out looking lazy etc and it is about time that changed at long last. 

I want to be able to go out and feel good in my clothing once again and this is what I am going to keep in mind and aim for whilst I am out shopping for new pieces. Granted whilst I am wanting to improve my wardrobe and find that perfect style I am also going to be mindful of my weight loss journey, with my size hopefully changing a lot in the near future I don't want to be spending a fortune on clothing for it not to fit properly a few months down the line. Also I don't want to be spending a fortune if the style doesn't actually work for me which is also why I won't be throwing out all my current clothing straight away, I need to work out what works for me and what doesn't, imagine getting rid of everything and then feeling worse in the clothing I bought to fill the gaps.

So with all that being said it is definitely going to be a journey for me to find that style that just works right for me and gives me that confidence back at long last. So here are the kind of things you can expect from me on here and on my social media accounts...

Showcasing new in pieces

There is obviously going to be a fair bit of shopping involved in this journey as I aim to build my perfect wardrobe so you can expect plenty of new pieces showcased on here and over on my social media accounts. This might be new clothing, new accessories or shoes but I can guarantee now each purchase will help with the journey rather than being a waste of money.

Sharing how I feel in different outfits etc

This might be more over on social media however, I will be sharing how I feel in different styles/outfits as this will show what is working for me and what isn't working. I am hoping I will be able to say each outfit on this journey builds my confidence a little bit more however, I guess only time will tell. Doing this should also help me decide what to get rid of and avoid in the future or what to purchase more of.

Showing how I style different outfits I pick up

As I am showing the items I picked up I guess it is only right that I show how I style those pieces. I am hoping to add a lot more styling content to this page all based on those new items I am bringing in that are different to what I would usually buy. Hopefully I can get back into doing those how to wear & how I style posts which I used to love doing. This will also help show me what works for me and what doesn't.

Show off my inspirations

A lot of my style inspiration is actually coming from social media lately and the plan is to highlight that inspiration over on my social media and occasionally on here. I think there may even be some outfit recreation posts in the future to see if the inspiration works for me or if I need to tweak it a lot to fit me better.

I think I can honestly say there is going to be a big shift in content going forward to suit the style change and my own self discovery journey. In terms of things changing though these are some things I am now going to be doing when it comes to my style overall...

Buy what I really want

Now this is a pretty big one for me to be honest as for so long I have listened to others whilst shopping and those people have put me off making certain purchases and advised me to stick to what I currently wear. This is a cycle I definitely need to break and if I like an item I should try it on and if I still like it I should just treat myself and follow the style I want rather than people talking me out of it.

Aim for a more luxurious/smarter style

I mentioned earlier my style at the moment just feels lazy and definitely needs working on which I think is why this whole mindset around what I wear has reared its head. The plan going forward is going to be aiming for a more luxurious/smarter style, something that is going to take time and some consideration day to day but I know it is going to be worth it in the end.

Less logos & prints

I guess this is possibly going to be the biggest change here as 99% of my clothing is currently covered in graphics or logos. To be honest though I just aren't feeling it anymore and I am finding myself wanting some nice plain or small subtle logo tops in my rotation. I feel that a small subtle logo just looks so much better than a random graphic that takes up the whole of your t-shirt. Going forward it is going to be very rare you see me in a big graphic t-shirt and by removing these I will have so much free space in my wardrobe too. 

Accessorising my outfits more

I am going down the plain and smarter route so my outfits might end up looking a bit plain however, that is where the change is coming into play as going forward you will see me adding much more accessories into my outfits whether is is a watch, jewellery, a cap or something different you bet you will see some consideration over what goes with each outfit. The accessories are lacking at the moment so expect a few unboxing's of these going forward as I build up a nice little rotation.

Even the footwear is changing

I am even planning on changing the footwear I wear so expect to see those changes happening over on social media and here. At the moment I spend a fortune on sneakers I might not even wear just because they are 'hyped' going forward though that is changing. Inside I am going to be buying much smarter silhouettes that go better with the style I am opting for, these might not be for everyone but if they work with what I am purchasing I will be picking them up. It isn't just going to be sneakers I buy either as I am going to look at picking up loafers and smarter shoes going forward just to mix it up a bit and look a bit smarter than just being in sneakers 24/7. 

To be honest I am really looking forward to changing my style as it haas certainly been on my mind recently including those purchases that would really make the style come together for me. It is also about time I started taking pride in my appearance again and finally get out of this rut where I am going to spend more time getting ready on a morning making an effort with what I wear, my hair and skin care too. Granted I really need another wardrobe declutter very soon to make way for the new in pieces and this is going to cost a fair bit of money to do in the long run but it is about time I started dressing for me and not what others prefer for me. I really do feel like the whole style thing is just the beginning of bigger change for me so let's see what else follows shall we...

My first shopping trip is fast approaching and I am so ready to start implementing the changes into my wardrobe so expect a post all about the new pick ups later on in the week if all goes to plan. The shopping trips will be being reigned in though but more on that another day, let's just see how much I can get for the time being. I am really looking forward to documenting how things are changing on here and social media so keep checking back for updates etc as posts are going to be based on this journey going forward. 

Now let's see how this goes or if I am just going to revert back to old habits in a few weeks time, which I really hope I don't and that I totally fall in love with this change of direction.

See you soon

Lucy

It is time to upgrade the footwear choices...

 


I know I keep on saying it however, it is just how things are going at the moment as there seem to be a lot of areas in my life where things are changing. I will post more about these changes another day however, when I say that everything is starting to change I mean it as even my footwear choices are moving in a different direction. 

I guess this is due to my overall dress sense changing and my footwear needing to follow suit but I am starting to identify gaps where what I have on my feet needs to change. It really is time to upgrade my footwear rotation and the plan this time is to only buy the footwear that I really love and what will go with many pieces in the new wardrobe I am building. In preparation for the changes I have actually had a huge declutter of what I already had and let's just say a lot of pairs have finally been disposed of and I have been able to identify the gaps I have had and where replacements have been required. This list has also been heavily influenced by social media where I have been scrolling endlessly for inspiration for the style I want to aim for. So here are the pieces of footwear I want to add into my rotation...

Sneakers

Previously I have gone for those sneakers that are trendy however, they are expensive and don't seem to last two minutes. I am finding that following the crowd is getting boring now and I am wasting money as most pairs I buy don't go with anything else I own. I have recently picked up a few pairs that aren't considered to be on trend and to be honest I am finding them comfier and they are withstanding the wears more than my Nike's had been. So here are the sneakers that have made it onto my wish list...

All white sneakers

These are going to be an essential and I am hoping I can find a pair with minimal branding that is in a low cut silhouette. These will just slot straight into any rotation and will look fantastic with practically all of my wardrobe and any new additions that get brought in. There are a few options I have been looking at for this addition but I am going to have a shop around for that perfect pair and not just get the first ones I see.

Ralph Lauren sneakers

I picked up my first pair of Ralph Lauren sneakers a few month back and to be honest I wish I had got some previously as they are one of the comfiest pairs I own. The plan is to build up a nice little rotation of Ralph Lauren sneakers in the hopes that I eventually have a pair to go with each piece in my wardrobe. There are some nice options out there so with a good look around there should be a few new pairs added soon. 

Lacoste sneakers

Lacoste sneakers seem to be standing out to me every time I go where they are stocked so I think I am going to be adding a smart, simple pair into my footwear rotation. I used to love my old Lacoste sneakers so I am hoping that any new pairs I picked up are as comfortable and as easy to style. These will definitely be a sale pick up. 

Comme Des Garcons Converse

Converse are something I have fallen back in love with recently and I am absolutely loving the classic vibe you get when wearing them. To add a bit of an extra level to my outfits though I really want to pick up both a white & black pair of Comme Des Garcons Converse as that print on the side makes a brilliant statement on a simple outfit.

Other footwear

Surprisingly I am not finding myself wanting too many pairs of sneakers these days and I am gravitating towards trying out different footwear style for a change. With me changing up my style I know that changing the style of shoe I wear will make the outfits look better than if I just threw on any random pair of sneakers. So here are those other pairs of footwear that have made it onto my wish list...

Hey Dudes

Social media brought the brand Hey Dudes to my attention and I have instantly fallen in love with them. The footwear is so different to what I would usually wear but it is really standing out to me and I feel as though I really need to try a pair for myself. They are different but I think a nice simple pair would work really well for me.

Leather loafers

I currently own one pair of loafers but I really want to change this and pick up a few different styles of leather loafers to mix up my outfits a bit. My current pair are on the shiny side and are best for nights out or events so I would like a few more subtle leather pair of loafers, one chunky & one more smarter looking pair. These may take a while to hunt down the perfect pair but I am determined to add a few pairs of leather loafers very soon.

Suede loafers

For the summer I would love to add a few pairs of suede loafers into my rotation in a few different colours however, I am so far struggling to find the perfect pairs at a reasonable price. The plan is to get a few pairs that are going to see me through this summer and for a few future years. Again I am going to need to have a shop around for the perfect pairs but I am sure I will get them in time for any more nice weather we get.

Espadrilles

It has been a long time since I last owned a pair of espadrilles but I think this year it is time to repurchase a few different colours to go with different outfits. I don't want to spend a fortune on espadrilles but at the same time I don't want to buy cheap and have to repurchase them in the not so distance future. I would love to have a few pairs in my rotation by the time the weather warms up again.

Birkenstock sandals

Now I would 100% love a pair of Birkenstock sandals for this summer however, I am also at the stage now where I think it would be a bit more sensible to find some good quality dupes to see if the style of sandal works for me or not. There are plenty of dupes out there now for these so they should be added into the rotation pretty soon all being well.

Hermes dupe sandals

The more I see the Hermes sandals on my social media the more tempted I get to find a pair however, I know I aren't going to be rushing out to buy an actually Hermes pair due to the cost of them. Instead until I know I am actually going to like them and get the wear out of them I am planning on trying some different dupes to see how they go with the style direction I am heading in. Again there seems to be plenty of affordable dupes for these at the moment so I will hopefully have them in my rotation soon.

Clarks Wallabees

The more I see the Wallabees the more I would love to have a pair in my rotation so they have made this round of wish list posts. I would love these for summer however, with a bit of suede protection I think these would work so well with a lot of autumn outfits I have in mind. A nice neutral colourway of these will definitely be added to my footwear rotation at some point.

So there you have it those are the current footwear choices that are on my wish list, as my style is changing I know my footwear is going to have to too so some of these items will be added to my rotation sooner rather than later. I wonder what pair will be purchased first though?

I am really looking forward to now starting to build my perfect footwear rotation to match the style I am gravitating towards, you will notice a shift in content too so keep an eye out to see what direction the website and social media take... it really is a time for change now.

See you all soon...

Lucy


My July 2024 goals

It is seriously time to stop slacking now as we enter the second half of the year. I am determined that July is going to be a month of implementing discipline and hopefully we will see a good amount of growth throughout the month. I have set myself goals that align with how I want not only the month to progress but also the rest of the year as from now on everything I do is going to be focused on becoming the best version of myself. 

So here are the goals I am hoping to smash this July...

Fashion

Plan out all my weeks outfits every Sunday

Now I have the home office set up this is going to make life much easier as I can fill the rail with clothes for the whole week and get ready with everything in one place at long last. This will include my outfits for work, workouts, football and anything else they are needed for. The planning should also stop me throwing any old outfit on too. 

No wearing sneakers every day 

I am determined that July is going to be a month where I mix my footwear up much more. With the style changes taking places I know mixing up my footwear is actually going to be beneficial and as I have finally decluttered my footwear I know just what I have and what will or wont work well together. I am really hoping the weather brightens back up so I can get some wear out of my Dr Marten's sandals in July.

Add at least 1 accessory to each outfit

There has been no accessorizing going on no matter how good my intentions have been however, I am determined to change that around in July and the new rule is each day I add at least 1 accessory to the outfit I am wearing that did. It could be glasses, a hat or a piece of jewellery but at least 1 piece is a starting point. 

Dress smarter

I mentioned earlier I have just been throwing on any old clothes and hoping for the best but that also changes this month. With me planning my outfits dressing smarter should become much easier as I have time in advance to sit down and work out what piece goes with what. 

Buy a new Bradford City shirt

I have been really good when it comes to buying football shirts lately however, a new Bradford City shirt is on the cards for July. The new season starts early August and I always have at least one of the new shirts to wear on that opening home game. Out of the two released so far I think the home shirt is going to be July's purchase.

Fitness 

Make sure I am completing all my assigned workouts

At the moment my plan is set to 2 strength sessions, a run, a football session and a mobility session each week and I have been slacking and not completing a lot of my sessions which is doing me no good for my progress on my journey. The plan for July is to ensure I am hitting all those sessions unless I am injured or ill. A solid month of hitting all these sessions will help me build a habit going forward and hopefully help me push along on my journey.

Eat a lot better

My diet is what is really letting me down at the moment as I am still opting for the quick and easy options or takeaways however, the plan in July is to really reign in my eating habits and get things under control. I am going to limit my eating out and if I do eat out I will be looking for better alternatives. I am also planning on cooking from scratch more often and adding in more nutritious items to make sure the calories I am eating are beneficial for me.

Complete the colour run

I am doing the local colour run with some of my football team and the plan is to complete it with as much running involved as possible. Now I know I am not going to be able to run the full 5 km however, just showing up is pushing myself more than I previously would have done. It should be fun as well as there is a group of us doing it.

Make more progress on the Couch to 5K

Progress has seriously stalled on completing this due to life just getting much busier than I expected. I am starting to enjoy running a bit though so I am hoping I can set aside plenty of time in July to make some good progress through the app and progress my running journey. 

Continue to push myself out of my comfort zone

By completing the Total Warrior event in June I well and truly pushed myself out of my comfort zone and I felt like I had really achieved something. In July I want to continue to push myself by booking onto another event to do in 2025. The type of event that is standing out to me at the moment is a 10 km race but I am going to take a look and see what I can find.

Home

Get the shoe and coat declutter done at last

The shoe and coat declutter has been put off for far too long now so in July I am more determined than ever to get this job ticked off the list and really free up some space for new in footwear and some new coats & jackets I have had my eye on. This job might take a while but it is going to be so worth while.

Sort the outside cupboard out

We have a cupboard outside that we have piled everything in and it is out of control. It is filled with rubbish, decorating supplies and the space could be made into something much more beneficial. The plan is to remove everything from in here and only put back in the gardening tools and maybe a few decorating bits. I just want to be able to easily access the items that we have in here rather than take my life into my own hands opening the door.

Sort out the shed at long last

The shed is a bit like the outside cupboard, it has become a dumping ground and again I just want it to be a space where we can easily access items for a change. There is a huge mix of things in here alongside things that need binning so the plan is to get some racking so each item has a designated space for a change and I know where something is if I am looking forward to it. I am quite positive we are going to be able to get a lot of bits removed from here to really free up some space.

Keep on top of cutting the grass

The plan in July is to get a lawnmower and strimmer so that we can finally start to take care of our garden ourselves. At the moment the front garden and back garden look like jungles so I am hoping to be able to go out every few weeks and just maintain these areas properly so we can make use out of the space for a change.

Complete the back garden

I really want to be able to enjoy the back garden this year as it has been such a wasted space these past 6 years that we have lived in the house. The plan is to convert the planters into seating, tidy up the space and paint the fence & possibly decking. Having this space will be brilliant as I can just go sit out there and enjoy the scenery instead of picking it apart. I can also have a head start on getting it party ready too as I have settled on a get together here for my birthday in September so I will take getting ahead on anything at the moment to make life easier.

Life 

Stick to my to buy list so I am not wasting money

I am determined to stick to my to buy list rather than heading out spending money for the sake of it like I have done too often recently. My list is full of items that will help me get the goals above ticked off so I know the purchases are going to be beneficial in the long run. The days of wasting money really need to be behind me now.

Add to savings rather than take out of them

I have recently found myself dipping into my savings rather than adding to them however, I know now that I need to stop doing this as I want to save to get the hallway redone and my car needs an M.O.T in November so I need to be prepared for that. If things go to plan with sticking to my to buy list I should easily be able to add to my savings rather than take out of them but I guess only time will tell. I am determined to finally get on top of my finances and there is no better way than taking action now.

Go to the driving range with Liam every Sunday possible

Now I know this won't be every Sunday in July as I know I am not at home for at least one of them however, I am determined that every Sunday I am at home will be spent with an hour or so at the local driving range. We have really enjoyed going lately and it is a chance to switch off and enjoy each others company so let's see if this goes to plan.

Spend time enjoying the garden

Now I am determined to get the garden done so I can tick off this goal. If the weather permits I would love to be able to go sit outside before work with a coffee or just enjoy my evening out there after work with a fire pit going. It is about time we got this sorted and made into an enjoyable area at long last.

Pick my next course to work on

I started off so well at the beginning of the year however, I have dropped right off and haven't completed a new course for a while now. The courses I have been doing are all from the free section of the Open University website so I will be heading back to the site in July to pick my next course to work through. I am hoping that I can not only pick a course to do but also make a start on it, I guess only time will tell though.

Content

Post 3 times a week on my TNG Instagram

I am really determined to grow this account and start making some better content to follow the journey I am currently on to discover my style. I am hoping that I can get 3 regular pieces of content up per week as a minimum but if I do manage more than this I will be really impressed with myself. The main focus I think will be on reels but let's see if we can gather a bit of consistency this month and build some content creating habits. I need to try get on with getting out shooting content too as I have been missing doing this and know it will be beneficial for my content.

Post on the TNG website Monday to Friday Weekly

As of the 8th of July I want to make sure that I have a new and interesting blog post going up every weekday just to get back into creating content after falling out of love for it for a while. As things are changing I feel like having the website will help me document my journey and also help me express more than I can on Instagram. I am looking forward to creating plenty of new blog posts in July and also planning out what direction I really want to take my site in going forward.

Post on the TNGG website at least twice a week

Again as of the 8th of July I am planning on ensuring that a minimum of 2 blog posts a week go up on my gaming website. This has well and truly neglected lately due to a lack of gaming and a lack of motivation to write but the urge to sit and play games has well and truly returned and I am hoping I can get the content back up and running on this site too.

Start adding to the TNGG Tik Tok 

I really want to start building up a presence for my gaming site on Tik Tok so the goal for July is to get at least 4 videos on the platform. Granted I might end up doing more than the 4 videos in the month but at least 4 is a realistic number to aim for initially. I now just need to sit down and come up with some content ideas for the month.

Email 1 brand

I am really wanting to grow my content to the point where I can work with brands however, rather than sitting around waiting for opportunities I am planning on emailing or messaging 1 brand in July to see about possibly working together at some point. Granted my following is still only small so this is unlikely to happen but trying has never hurt anybody.

So there you have it those are my goals this July, make sure you check back at the end of the month to see just how many I managed to complete, if any at all. I am determined to have a very good and productive month so let's hope the end of the month is a very positive wrap up. 

It is time to get things moving in the right direction and these goals are bound to help that happen.